Showing posts with label Grandpa. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Grandpa. Show all posts

Thursday, November 13, 2025

Know When to Fold 'Em (Six Sentence Story), Good Fences, Sammy's Poetry Day and Brian's Thankful Thursday

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On this blog, when i say "Grandma and Grandpa," i mean my parents, my children's grandparents, and when i talk about Uncle J, it's my brother, my children's uncle, and right now because of damage last year, the kitchen is totally torn out, the final repairs are happening, but there's no way to cook, just warm food in a microwave, everything is in boxes all over and good luck finding it.


In the middle of a crazy busy Monday on a crazy busy week with meetings and could not miss it appointments, Grandma sent me a text the essence of which was, "We are so weak and sick, your Dad can't take care of me, he's not getting better, your brother is trying but he can't do it all, we need help."


In our family, usually what Grandma wants, Grandma gets, so i rushed through my day, rushed through my appointment, canceled going to my meeting and sent my Sweetie to bring what I was going to bring to someone else who could take it, packed and risked taking Slow-Moe, the very old car, to NOLA -- the cavalry was on the way.


I got down there and Grandma was so weak she couldn't get out of the bed to get to her bathroom, Grandpa was shuffling around and coughing and looking lost, and poor Uncle J, with his bad back, trying to take care of them both, so we had supper delivered and i sent Grandpa to lie down and Uncle J to rest his back and i took care of Grandma until i finally got her to go to sleep close to midnight -- three snacks, two visits to the bedside "facilities," and countless times helping her with the remote control which she was shaking too hard to work correctly.


Tuesday morning, i rushed back up here to our area, took care of the baby so her parents could get to their work meetings they could not miss, then got back down there for another night with Grandma, which went better as she was stronger and more able to walk with her walker, and i got her to go to sleep early enough to help straighten up her sleep schedule.


On Wednesday very early i was able to fold my tent and steal back up here again to go to work where Ms. G, who is out of town, needed me to run a special errand and then go do critter care at her house, which got interrupted when GusGus (the other old, precarious car) had a check your tire light go on but it all got done anyway and the tires are fine after airing up and no more running to NOLA until Saturday.



Linking up with Denise at Girlie On The Edge Blog, where she hosts Six Sentence Stories, and the cue is Fold.      





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While Good Fences Around the World seems to have gone the way of the dodo bird, i still enjoy looking for and posting interesting fences, so i will!





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It's Angel Sammy's Poetry Day This week's image and my poem:    






I said what I meant

and I meant what I said,

that I'd be back someday

you dunderhead!


Now I'm not asking,

I'm telling you clear,

go back in, but first

hand the peanuts here!



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Angel Brian's Family of Brian's Home - Forever hosts the Thankful Thursday Blog Hop.   It's time to share something for which i am thankful.  


Today i am thankful Grandma and Grandpa are both feeling better, no need for me to keep running back down there.  I get to go back on Saturday for the regular cleaning, and that's it.






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It's World Kindness Day!  Promoting a more compassionate world, on the anniversary of the first  World Kindness Movement® conference.  It's also Kindness Day UK!


Thanks to Barb Kowalik and The Cat Blogosphere for the event badge.        


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Today is:


Ides of November -- Ancient Roman Calendar; also

     Epulum Iovis -- Festival of Feronia, Juno, Minerva, and Jupiter

     Fortuna Primigenia -- Fortune of the Firstborn


National Indian Pudding Day


National Reread Old Letters and Magazines Day -- internet generated sentimentality


Runic Half Month Nyd begins (necessity)


St. Brice of Tours' Day (Patron against stomach diseases)


St. Homobonus' Day (Patron of business people, cloth workers/garment workers/tailors, cobblers/shoemakers, merchants)


St. Stanislaus Kostka's Day (Patron of aspirants to the Oblates of Saint Joseph, last sacraments; against broken bones)



Anniversaries Today:


The Vietnam Veterans Memorial is dedicated, 1982

The Holland Tunnel opens, 1927



Birthdays Today:


Monique Coleman, 1980

Gerard Butler, 1969

Steve Zahn, 1968

Tracy Scoggins, 1959

Jimmy Kimmel, 1967

Vinny Testaverde, 1963

Chris Nth, 1957

Whoopi Goldberg, 1955

Chris North, 1954

Shella E. Frazier, 1948

Joe Mantegna, 1947

Jean Seberg, 1938

Gary Marshall, 1934

Madeleine Sherwood, 1922

Oskar Werner, 1922

Nathaniel Benchley, 1915

Louis Brandeis, 1856

Robert Louis Stevenson, 1850

Edwin Thomas Booth, 1833

James Clerk Maxwell, 1831

Edward John Trelawney, 1792



Debuting/Premiering Today:


"The Lion King"(Play), 1997

"As the Girls Go"(Musical), 1948

Fantasia(Disney animated film), 1940

"Grand Hotel"(Drake play), 1930



Today in History:


English king Æthelred II orders the killing of all Danes in England, known today as the St. Brice's Day massacre, 1002

Lady Jane Grey and Bishop Cranmer are accused of high treason, 1553

Patriot revolutionary forces under Col. Ethan Allen attack Montreal, Quebec, defended by British General Guy Carleton, 1775

Benjamin Franklin says, “Our new Constitution is now established, and has an appearance that promises permanency; but in this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.” 1789

The first US anti-slavery party, the Liberty Party, convenes in New York, 1839

James Braid first sees a demonstration of animal magnetism, which leads him to study the subject and come up with what he later calls hypnosis, 1841

The Denny Party arrives at Alki Point, becoming the first settlers of what would become Seattle, Washington, 1851

The first shipment of canned pineapple leaves Hawai'i, 1895

French cyclist Paul Cornu flies the first helicopter, 1907

Russia completes development of the AK-47, one of the first proper assault rifles, 1947

A 150-mph tropical cyclone hits the densely populated Ganges Delta region of East Pakistan (now Bangladesh), killing an estimated 500,000 people in one night. This is regarded as the 20th century's worst natural disaster, 1970

The Double Eagle V becomes the first hot air balloon to make it across the Pacific Ocean, 1981

Xavier Suarez is sworn in as Miami, Florida's first Cuban-born mayor, 1985

The High Court of Australia rules in Dietrich v The Queen that although there is no absolute right to have publicly funded counsel, in most circumstances a judge should grant any request for an adjournment or stay when an accused is unrepresented, 1992

In a referendum voters in Sweden decide to join the European Union, 1994

NASA announces that water has been discovered on the moon, 2009

Medical textbooks require rewriting after 39-year-old Canadian Scott Routley becomes the first person believed to be in a vegetative state to tell scientists he isn't in any pain, 2012

A total solar eclipse occurs over parts of Australia and the South Pacific, 2012

The Vatican announces that restrooms being remodeled in St. Peter's Square will include showers for the homeless, and encourages other churches to do the same, 2014

Evidence of the world's earliest winemaking is uncovered from Khramis Didi Gora, Georgia, in clay pots from 6,000BC, 2017

Venice, Italy is hit by its worst flooding in 50 years, 2019

The rediscovered painting "Lucretia" by female baroque artist Artemisia Gentileschi sells for $4.1 million at auction in Paris, 2019

The Glasgow Climate Pact agreement at COP26 commits countries to a "phasedown" of "unabated" coal, and end deforestation by 2030 and to cut methane emissions by 30% by 2030, 2021

Kenya holds its first national tree planting holiday, aiming to plant 100 million trees as a part of its climate change initiative to plant 15 billion trees by 2032, 2023

The world's largest coral, larger than a blue whale and 300 years old, is found off the Solomon Islands in the southwest Pacific Ocean, 2024

Wednesday, November 12, 2025

The Danger of Doing Arts and Crafts in Bed (Wordless Wednesday) and Words for Wednesday

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Linking up with Wordless Wednesday, Keith, Catsynth, and Sandee at Comedy Plus.     





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Words for Wednesday was begun by Delores and has become a moveable feast of word or picture or music prompts to encourage us to write stories, poems, or whatever strikes our fancy.    


This month, Sean Jeating  is providing the prompts and they will appear on River's blog.


This week's words/prompts are:


1.technique  

2.think  

3.taught  

4.way  

5.completely


and/or:


1.learn  

2.write  

3.exist  

4.reading  

5.lost


Charlotte's colour of the month is Heavenly Blue.


use either list or both, or mix and match, just have fun.



   Grandma and Grandpa (my parents, my children's grandparents, simply called by these names on my blog for the sake of brevity and consistency) have had one killer cough-and-cold going on.


Grandpa got it first, of course, since Grandma is housebound unless Uncle J (my brother) and i pick her up and put her in a car.


Grandpa goes to church, to the store, to meetings, to lunch with friends...


Grandpa can't EXIST without being involved in helping someone with something, so he's out of the house being exposed to the germs and brings them home to Grandma.


Grandma, being housebound and almost bedridden, also keeps Grandpa hopping, so it wasn't LOST on me he wasn't getting better because of it.  I spent two nights down there letting him sleep and helping her every time she wanted more ice, or to "use the facilities," or got a craving for toast with lots of butter at 11pm.


Yes, her sleep schedule is off, and two nights of him not having to get up with her over and over helped him tremendously.


Meanwhile, Grandma is still wanting to do her arts and crafts, from her bed since she can't make it to her art table any longer.


She's always READING about a new TECHNIQUE, or trying to LEARN how to use a different style, or something, in the art she creates.  If someone can THINK of a new WAY to turn a cereal box into a creative storage solution, or whatever it is, and they WRITE it up with lots of pictures, or do a video, she wants to know about it.


When she was younger and my children were younger, she TAUGHT them a lot about art.


Of course, now Grandma can only see out of one eye and her glasses are not new, so sometimes she cannot COMPLETELY tell what she is doing, or what her scissors are cutting.


Thus the Wordless Wednesday photo above, with the nice hole in her nice gray-blue blanket.  She hasn't cut the brighter Heavenly Blue one yet.


Yes, blue is her favorite color.


Yes, it's worth letting her go ahead and do her art.


Although we all wish she would get back on a more normal sleep schedule.




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Today is:


A&W Rootbeer Mug Day -- see if you can frost your mug like they did at the old A&W stores


Birth of Baha'u'llah -- Baha'i


Birth of Sun Yat-Sen, Doctors Day, and Cultural Renaissance Day -- Taiwan


Chicken Soup for the Soul Day -- "Changing the world, one story at a time."


Constitution Day -- Azerbaijan


Dia del Cartero -- Mexico (Postman's Day; postal carriers are shown appreciation with small gifts left in mailboxes)


Fancy Rat and Mouse Day -- the American Fancy Rat and Mouse Association wants you to know these little critters can give you a lot of love 


Journee Nationale Maore -- Comoros (Admission to the UN Day)


Khalkeia -- Ancient Greek Calendar (festival of smiths, associated with Hephaists and Athena; date approximate)


National Pizza with the Works Except Anchovies Day


National Youth Day -- East Timor


St. Emillian's Day (Patron of Spain, finding lost objects)


St. Josaphat's Day (Patron of Edmonton, Alberta; Toronto, Ontario; Ukraine)


Tewa Buffalo Dance -- Native American Tewa of the Tesuque Pueblo rites on the feast day of their Patron, San Diego, to honor Mother Earth, Father Sky, the four directions, and the elements; through the 15th


Tori No Ichi -- Japan (the first "rooster day" of November, so called because it is held on the two or three days of the rooster this month, in which to wish good luck and prosperity at temple and shrine ceremonies around the country, and celebrate with a fair)


World Animal Enrichment Day -- bored animals are not happy animals, see RuffleSnuffle® for details  


World Pneumonia Day -- because we lose a million children a year to this preventable illness 



Anniversaries Today:


The Arches National Park established, 1971

Ellis Island closes, 1954



Birthdays Today:


Anne Hathaway, 1982

Ryan Gosling, 1980

Sammy Sosa, 1968

Michael Moorer, 1967

David Schwimmer, 1966

Nadia Comaneci, 1961

Megan Mullally, 1958

Neil Young, 1945

Al Michaels, 1944

Wallace Shawn, 1943

Grace Kelly, 1929

Jo Stafford, 1918

Harry A. Blackmun, 1908

Sun Yat-sen, 1866

Auguste Rodin, 1840

Elizabeth Cady Stanton, 1815



Debuting/Premiering Today:


"Grand Hotel"(Musical), 1989

"Irma la Douce"(Musical), 1956

"Paint Your Wagon"(Musical), 1951

Song of the South(Disney film), 1946

The first Sunday American-style football game is held in Philadelphia, 1933



Today in History:


Tibetan troops occupy Chang'an, the capital of the Chinese Tang Dynasty, for fifteen days starting today, 764

Plymouth, England, becomes the first town incorporated by the English Parliament, 1439

Sir James Young Simpson, a British physician, is the first to use chloroform as an anaesthetic, 1847

Jules Leotard performs 1st Flying Trapeze circus act (Paris); he also designed garment that bears his name, 1859

World's Fair in Paris opens, 1900

The first movie stunt: man jumps into Hudson river from a burning balloon, 1910

Norway holds a referendum in favor of monarchy over republic, 1905

Robert Scott's diary & body are found in Antarctica, 1912

Austria becomes a republic, 1918

The first underwater tunnel, the Holland Tunnel connecting NY to NJ opens, 1927

The first photo of whatever is in Loch Ness is taken, 1933

Morocco, Sudan and Tunisia join the United Nations, 1956

Equatorial Guinea joins the United Nations, 1968

The Comoros joins the United Nations, 1975

The NASA space probe Voyager I makes its closest approach to Saturn and takes the first images of its rings, 1980

The Space Shuttle Columbia becomes the first time a manned spacecraft launched into space twice, 1981

Crown Prince Akihito is formally installed as Emperor Akihito of Japan, becoming the 125th Japanese monarch, 1990

Tim Berners-Lee publishes a formal proposal for the World Wide Web, 1990

Shanghai Transrapid sets up a new world speed record (501 kilometres per hour (311 mph)) for commercial railway systems, 2003

The Comparative Toxicogenomics Database is launched on the web and revolutionizes chemical-gene-disease information for research scientists, 2004

Philippine volcano Mount Bulusan erupts again, 2010

The European Space Agency's Rosetta lands the Philae probe on the comet 67P/Churyumov-Gerasimenko,2014

For the first time since his mother became Queen, Prince Charles lays the wreath to Great Britain's war dead, instead of Queen Elizabeth, 2017

Five hundredth anniversary of the birth of Guru Nanak, founder of the Sikh religion, 2019

Amazon founder Jeff Bezos gives his "Courage and Civility Award" of $100million to Dolly Parton, to distribute to charities of her choice, 2022