Tuesday, May 5, 2026

So Long, Farewell, a Random and Happy Tuesday Post

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It's time once again for a random and happy Tuesday, linking up with Stacy's Random Thoughts at Stacy Uncorked and Sandee at Comedy Plus.  



For the last time in what will probably be a long time, i arrived at Carl's to find him in his sleep chair.


He had to be, they'd unmade his bed and used it as a staging area for packing his things.


It's okay, he never did mind being in the chair, and sometimes slept in it rather than the bed simply because he wanted to.


The dryer had four dryer balls still, but not the same for as last time.  The blue one is back and one of the large ones is missing now.  Funny how things happen in that house, and we'll see if they continue in the coming months.


Speaking of which, last week someone asked if i'd ever seen both the green and red aprons in the same place at the same time.  Yes, it used to be i would hang both from the hook in his room where they are supposed to be, but lately we can only find one at a time, and i have no idea where they go or how they get back.  Carl might know, but he wouldn't know how to tell me.


Mr. L's clothes were in the washer, and since i was going to need to use it and i knew they were going to be busy (once they could pry themselves out of bed), i went ahead and dried and folded them, taking yet another thing of Ms. V's plate.


Carl's room was in such a higgle piggle i almost didn't know where to begin, and decided to start simple, see if i could find the bed linens (on the floor in the kitchen, of course) and get the first load going.  Next is clean the bathroom so he can shower as soon as he gets up.


Gets up for the second time, that is.  The first time Carl got up, he just came in looking for his throat spray and morning meds, then went back for another round of sleep.


Later, he came in and kept jogging in place as i tried to ask him some questions.  Once he quit saying, "Hey, I'm jogging!" with a grin he finally agreed yes, he did want his shower.


I'd cleaned the kitchen area, moving items including Ms. V's extensive lists of stuff she wanted and needed to do or take, cleaning under them and then gently putting them right back, when he came out of the shower laughing.


"They kept shooting me down," he said, talking, i assumed, about some video games he'd been playing with friends over the weekend.  He also talked about grenade launchers and trackers and smiled the whole time, so i'm guessing he had a good time.


Then it was time for breakfast.


"Where are my keys?" he asked, then added, "biscuit!"


You want to go get a biscuit? i asked and he smiled.  "And coffee, yum!"


I handed him the keys and he walked out, then walked back in.  "Where's my coat?"


It was a cool morning, but not a coat morning and his coat was not in the closet, obviously already packed.  I suggested a thick pullover, and he rejected it as too hot, although it would not have been as hot as the coat.  We compromised on a thinner pullover and he left.


Ms. V got up early for her and i showed her what i was doing, re-cleaned the parts of the bathroom Carl had messed while in there, sorting so they could see everything in the bathroom and other areas to decide what to take, put the towels and other items he's just used in the laundry basket for Thursday, and etc.  She was pleased and about that time, Carl walked back in with his breakfast.


As soon as he discarded the pullover, i hung it up.  No need to make more work for all of us and he wouldn't need it later in the day when they left.


I also snagged the keys and gave them to Ms. V.  Knowing Carl, he'd take them with him and then they wouldn't be able to use or move his car (there's no spare).  She hung them up with all the other extra keys by the hall door in the laundry room.


"Where's my phone?" he started asking.  It was supposed to be in his overnight suitcase which was packed so haphazardly i took it aside to a clear area of the floor and repacked it.  Yes, the phone was in it.


Around this time one of his best friends came over to say good-bye.  He and his wife were there with the dog, which added to the fun atmosphere, although Carl kept trying to pick up his iPad and saying, "I have to find out how often I can come back to visit, and how long I can stay."


Ms. V reassured him he would be allowed to come home as often as he wanted and stay as long as he liked.  I told him about a church friend whose son is there and loves it so much when his mom asks him to come home for a month in summer he refuses because he doesn't want to miss his golf tournament.  This seemed to make him feel better.


As all of us ran around getting things done, i asked Ms. V what else she needed.


"Could you call the glasses place and see if Carl's glasses are ready?  The number is written right here."


She pointed to her calendar and i called the number and got the Cracker Barrel restaurant!  I laughed and looked up the number myself, called, argued with the AI answering machine i did not have the order number, and finally demanded to speak to someone who was able to tell me they would probably arrive in two to three days.


Next, Ms. V asked me to take a luggage tag off of one of the pieces of luggage they were not taking along, rewrite it with Carl's name and the address of the place where he was moving to, and put it on his suitcase.


While doing so, i kept hearing a beeping, it was his alarm clock, packed, still running on the backup battery, and sounding the wake-up call at his usual time.  I dug it out of the box it was in and turned it off.


Then i turned to see Carl stashing the remainder of his breakfast in the fridge in his apartment.


You don't want to put it here, i told him, you want it in the other fridge, anything left in here won't get eaten because you won't be here to eat it.


He gave me a funny look, then moved it to the other fridge.


Once i'd accomplished as much as i could and had to go to my next job, i hugged everyone, told Carl i'd see him when he came to visit, and assured Ms. V i'd be back next week to start deep cleaning the apartment.


While across the street with Ms. S and Mr. D, i kept looking out the window and noted the arrival of Carl's brother and sister-in-law, and a couple of hours later, they were gone.


It's just a so long for now, though, because he will be back from time to time, and meanwhile, we're all  hoping great things for our friend Carl.


How about some funnies.















Have a blessed and beautiful Tuesday, everyone!






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Today is Cinco de Mayo, the Anniversary of the Battle of Puebla in Mexico (and an excuse to celebrate anyplace that beer brewers want to make a minor battle into a big deal to increase beer sales today!).


Thanks to Barb Kowalik and The Cat Blogosphere for the event badge.         




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Today is:


Arbegnoch Qen -- Ethiopia (Patriots' Victory Day)


Arrival Day -- Guyana


Bevrijdingsday -- Netherlands(Liberation Day)


Bonza Bottler Day™


Cartoonists Day -- celebrates the first color cartoon ever published, The Yellow Kid, on this day in 1895.


Children's Day -- Japan (Kodomo-no-hi); South Korea (Orininal)


Constitution Day -- Kyrgyzstan


Coronation Day -- Thailand (crowning of King Bhumibol Adulyadej in 1950)


Day of Adoration of Anubis -- Ancient Egyptian Calendar (date approximate)


Europe Day -- Council of Europe


Give Local America -- US (encouraging people to support local charities with the largest crowdfuning event in history)  


Halfway Point of Spring/Autumn


Hidirellez  -- Turkey (arrival of spring and a religious holiday of the Alevi peoples, celebrating the meeting on Earth of the Prophets Al-Khidr and Elijah; begins this evening and goes through tomorrow)


International Day of the Midwife  


Lag B'Omer -- Judaism (began sunset yesterday, ends at nightfall)


Lusophone Culture Day -- Community of Portuguese-speaking countries


National Chocolate Custard Day


National Ferret Day -- UK  (previously sponsored, but the link is no longer available)


National Hoagie Day


National Astronaut Day -- US (in honor of Alan Shephard)


National Teacher Appreciation Day -- US


Perfect Game Day -- Cy Young pitches baseball's first officially recorded perfect game on this day in 1904


Pithi Chrat Preah Neanng Korl -- Cambodia (Royal Ploughing Ceremony, to mark the beginning of the rice growing season)


Save Lives Clean your Hands Day -- WHO (the day gets its own web page)   


Senior Citizens Day -- Palau


St. Judith's Day (Patron of Prussia)


Totally Chipotle® Day 


World Asthma Day -- International (Global Initiative for Asthma; this year's theme is "Access to anti-inflammatory inhalers for everyone with asthma - still an urgent need")  



Anniversary Today:


The American Medical Association is founded, 1847



Birthdays Today:


Harry Cavill, 1983

Danielle Fishel, 1981

Tina Yothers, 1973

Brian Williams, 1959

Richard E. Grant, 1957

Jean-Pierre Leaud, 1944

Lance Henriksen, 1943

Michael Palin, 1943

Tammy Wynette, 1942

Michael Murphy, 1938

Pat Carroll, 1927

Ann B. Davis, 1926

Alice Faye, 1915

Tyrone Power, 1913

James Beard, 1903

Nelly Bly, 1864

John Batterson Stetson, 1830

Karl Marx, 1818

Soren Kierkegaard, 1813



Debuting/Premiering Today:


"Damn Yankees"(Play), 1955



Today in History:


Rebel barons begin a chain of events that leads to King John of England's eventual signing of the Magna Carta, 1215

Kublai Khan becomes ruler of the Mongol Empire, 1260

Jews are expelled from Speyer Germany, 1430

Christopher Columbus lands at Jamaica and claims it for Spain, 1494

In France, the Estates-General convenes for the first time since 1614, 1789

Citizenship is denied to Jews of Canton of Aargau Switzerland, 1809

Mary Kies becomes the first woman issued a US patent, for a method of weaving, 1809

The American Bible Society organizes in NY, 1816

Emperor Napoleon I dies in exile on the island of Saint Helena, 1821

In Belgium, the first railway in continental Europe opens between Brussels  and Mechelen, 1835

The American Medical Association forms in Philadelphia, 1847

Cinco de Mayo in Mexico: troops led by Ignacio Zaragoza halt a French invasion  in the Battle of Puebla, 1862

The first train robbery in the US occurs in North Bend, Ohio, 1865

Sitting Bull leads his band of Lakota into Canada to avoid harassment by the United States Army, 1877

The Music Hall in New York City (later known as Carnegie Hall) has its grand opening and first public performance, with Tchaikovsky as the guest conductor, 1891

Cy Young pitches the first perfect game in modern baseball history, 1904

Coco Chanel introduces Chanel No. 5, 1921

John T. Scopes is arrested for teaching evolution in violation of Tennessee's Butler Act, 1925

West Germany gains full sovereignty, 1955

Alan Shepard becomes the first American to travel into outer space, 1961

Bobby Sands dies in the Long Kesh prison hospital after 66 days of hunger-striking, aged 27, 1981

The government of Sudan signs an accord with the Sudan Liberation Army, 2006

Mass protests in Greece erupt in response to austerity measures imposed by the government as a result of the Greek debt crisis, 2010

Scientists announce the discovery of the oldest & most distant galaxy known to man, EGS-zs8-1, 2015

King Vajiralongkorn is crowned King of Thailand, 2019

Scientists publish findings of what is believed to be Africa's earliest known burial, a three-year-old boy, 78,000 years ago, in a cave in Kenya, 2021

Skype, the pioneering online video calling service established in 2003, is taken offline for good, 2025

Monday, May 4, 2026

The World Looks Better This Way (Awww Monday), Inspiring Quote of the Week, and Poetry Monday, Back Pack

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Awww Monday is hosted by Sandee at Comedy Plus.


Join us every Monday for Awww...Mondays.  Post a picture that makes you say Awww... and that's it.


Make sure you get the code from Sandee's site, linked above, and leave a link to your post so we can visit you.  What better way to start the week than with a smile!


A little somebody (Annie, of course) decided riding in the stroller with her head leaned back was the best way to view the world.









We walked with (slowly and carefully) with her in this position for a little distance and she loved it. 







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Sparks is the brainchild of Annie of McGuffy's Reader, who wanted us to post something positive and uplifting at the start of the week.  While she no longer blogs, i like to post an Inspiring Quote of the Week in her honor.    








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Our dear friend Diane is taking a break

accommodations we must make

we miss her poetry and wit

so carry on as Poetry Monday's a hit!


Poetry Monday was started by Diane at On The Alberta/Montana Border.  Charlotte/Mother Owl and i are keeping it going while she takes a blog break, we hope temporarily.  Anyone else is welcome to join in the fun, just let us know!


This week the theme is Back Pack.               


Strap on your back pack,

hit the trails,

don't let life get

stuck on the rails.


Get out on the land

under the open sky,

do it while you can,

don't let the seasons pass by.


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The officers searching back packs

arrested him on a deduction,

from the calculator, pencils and slide rule,

they said, "Weapons of math instruction!"


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Future themes are:


May 4 Back Pack (Today!)

May 11 Futuristic Landscape

May 18 Balcony

May 25 Scooter


(All themes are from the 365 Days of Drawing Prompts and Other Arts Facebook group.)


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Today is Star Wars Day!  Greet others with "May the 4th be with you!"


Thanks to Barb Kowalik and The Cat Blogosphere for the event badge.    



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I'm very sad to have to say we lost a blog friend recently.  Everyone who knew Ms. Jackie loved her, including me.  She will be missed.


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Today is:


Bird Day -- anniversary of the first Bird Day declared in 1894 by the Superintendent of Schools in Oil City, PA, Charles Babcock


Cassinga Day -- Namibia


Compliment Someone's Smile Day


Declaration of Independence Day -- Latvia


Dodenherdenking -- Netherlands (Remembrance of those in the armed forces who have died in war or peacekeeping missions.)


Frustrating the Fairies Day -- Ireland (a day to confuse the fairies so they may not cause any mischief, although i can't find any details about how to frustrate them)


International Firefighters' Day 


Lag B'Omer -- Judaism (begins sunset today)

     18th Iyar


May Fourth Movement

     Literary Day -- Republic of China

     Youth Day -- People's Republic of China


Melanoma Monday -- learn how to check yourself for skin cancer, and how to get someone else to check your back, the most common spot for melanoma 


Memorial Day -- Curacao (military ceremonies to honor victims of WWII, not a government holiday)


Midori no hi -- Japan (Greenery Day/Arbor Day)


National Candied Orange Peel Day


National Kids Fitness Day -- this one doesn't seem to have any particular sponsor or organization behind it, but please get those kids outdoors to do something fun, any time you can!


National Meeting Planners Appreciation Day 2026 -- US (you are only obligated to celebrate this if you love meetings, love to plan meetings, or have a meeting planner in your organization to humor)


National Orange Juice Day


National Weather Observers Day -- another fun day that doesn't seem to be sponsored by anyone, but Family Crafts has suggestions for how to celebrate


Petite and Proud Day -- i've never heard of this one until now, but it's the one for me!


Relationship Renewal Day -- because someone, somewhere, wants you to stop taking the ones you love for granted


Remembrance Day for Martyrs and the Disabled -- Afghanistan


Respect for Chickens Day -- International (United Poultry Concerns


Sagami Giant Kite Festival -- Sagami, Japan (through tomorrow; giant kite that requires a team of 100 people is flown on the banks of the Sagami River)


School Bus Driver Appreciation Day -- US


St. Florian's Day (Patron of brewers, chimney sweeps, coopers, drowning victims, fire prevention, firefighters, harvests, soap-boilers; Austria; Chur, Switzerland; Linz, Austria; Poland; against battle, drowning, fire, and flood)

     a recognized holiday in Austria


St. Venerius of Milan's Day (Patron of lighthouse keepers)


Youth Day -- China



Birthdays Today:


Erin Andrews, 1978

Dawn Stanley, 1970

Randy Travis, 1959

Pia Zadora, 1956

David Gutterson, 1956

Jackie Jackson, 1951

Richard Jenkins, 1947

Nicholas Ashford, 1942

George F. Will, 1941

Roberta Peters, 1930

Audrey Hepburn, 1929

Heloise Bowles Cruse, 1919

Horace Mann, 1796

Bartolomeo Cristofori, 1655



Debuting/Premiering Today:


"Beatles at Hollywood Bowl"(Album), 1977

"Another World"(TV), 1964

"New Girl in Town"(Musical), 1957



Today in History:


Religious reformers John Wycliffe and Jan Hus are condemned as heretics at the Council of Constance, 1415

Peter Minuit becomes director-general of New Netherlands, 1626

A French manufacturer debuts the first folding umbrella, 1715

Rhode Island becomes the first American colony to renounce allegiance to King George III, 1776

Mary Dixon Kies becomes the first woman in the US to obtain a patent, for a method of weaving hats with straw, silk, and thread, 1809

Napoleon arrives at Portoferraio on the island of Elba to begin his exile, 1814

The Haymarket Square Riot takes place in Chicago, 1886

The United States begins construction of the Panama Canal, 1904

The Royal Canadian Navy is created, 1910

May Fourth Movement: Student demonstrations take place in Tiananmen Square in Beijing, China, protesting the Treaty of Versailles, 1919

Al Capone begins serving an eleven-year prison sentence for tax evasion, 1932

Ernest Hemingway is awarded the Pulitzer Prize for The Old Man and the Sea, 1953

The "Freedom Riders" begin a bus trip through the South, 1961

The Don't Make A Wave Committee, a fledgling environmental organization founded in Canada in 1971, officially changes its name to "Greenpeace Foundation", 1972

An all-female Japanese team reaches the summit of Manaslu, becoming the first women to climb an 8,000-meter peak, 1974

Margaret Thatcher becomes the first female Prime Minister of the United Kingdom, 1979

Latvia proclaims the renewal of its independence after the Soviet occupation, 1990

The Scottish National Party wins the Scottish general election and becomes the largest party in the Scottish Parliament for the first time ever, 2007

The last nuclear reactor in Japan is shut down, leaving the country without nuclear power for the first time since 1970, 2012

California overtakes Great Britain to become the world's fifth largest economy, 2018

Halima Cisse of Mali gives birth to nonuplets (nine babies) in Morocco, in only the third known case worldwide, 2021

The WHO declares Covid-19 over as a global health emergency, although it continues to be a concern, 2023

Nearly three weeks of uninterrupted 24-hour live streaming (478 hours) of Sweden's 'Great Moose Migration' end after moose cross the Ã…ngerman River, 2025