Showing posts with label Ladies Circle. Show all posts
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Saturday, March 5, 2022

Who's Grumpy? A Ten Things of Thankful Post

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We've gotten to Thankful Day and my hat is off to our friend Chris Yesterday's launch party for her book is my first thankful.  After all, if there weren't writers where would we readers be?   


Because i'd missed a week at his place, the work at Carl's was as much as i could handle on Monday.  Not only am i thankful Ms. JAI understood and was willing to wait, i'm thankful that in Carl's case, i'm paid by the hour.


This being the first week of the month, there are two ladies' circle meetings for which to be thankful.  Ms. RW and i had planned to do the floor waxing this Tuesday, and i am thankful she had to put it off, it made me able to listen in on that meeting via Zoom.


The second meeting was Friday, and it's the one where i go see Ms. PA.  Since her house is being cleaned out and put up for sale, i only see her when i go for the meetings.  She thinks it's almost magic when i set up my tablet and we can see the other members of the circle group, and i'm thankful for the opportunity to visit with her.  Each time is cherished as she seems to be fading fast, she's getting weaker and they've put her on palliative care.


This is one of the delightful and heartbreaking things about being human, that not all of us begin or end the journey at the same time.  It gives us many opportunities to be thankful for the time we're given.


Ash Wednesday was a regular work day for me, which meant i couldn't get to our church for the noon service.  Thankfully i remembered a local church of another denominational flavor (i'm not that picky about such things) not far from where Little Girl went to high school, and i knew they used to have Ash Wednesday services in the evening.  Looking online, i found out they still do.


Since i'd never been to this church before, i wanted to leave in plenty of time so i could find out where to park and where to go, as well as have a few minutes to sit and relax and reflect before the service started.


Tripod SissyCat was outdoors and ran to hide when she realized i was bringing her in before leaving.  While that cut into my "get there early" plans, i am thankful i found her, got her in, and still got there.


Once there, i am thankful i was able to run back out to the car and retrieve the keys i'd dropped on the way in, thankful no one else found those keys and took the car, and thankful i got back into the sanctuary about 1 minute before the service began so i didn't disturb the service by coming in late.


The Rev. Nan didn't have an actual sermon/homily prepared so much as an exercise for us to do.  She talked about grumpy people, noting that we all have grumpy people in our lives that we have to deal with.  As Jesus loves these people, too, it should be our joy to learn to deal gently and lovingly with them.


She also noted that sometimes we are the grumpy people.  (It's true, and if you don't believe i get grumpy, just try keeping me from my first cup of coffee in the morning.)  When we're being the grumpy people, it's our joy to repent and learn to deal with others lovingly, even when we don't want to.


All of us went to one of the tables set up through the sanctuary and wrote the initials of a grumpy person in our lives on the back of a cutout "grumpy man" or grumpy woman" figure.  Then we each prayed silently for that person and prayed for the strength to be kind and loving to that person even if s/he is grumpy to us in the future.


We then wrote our own initials on one of the figures, and silently prayed for forgiveness for any grumpy or unkind moments we've had recently and prayed for strength to rise above our circumstances in the future and not react that way any longer.  All of the grumpy figures were left at the foot of a cross on each table.


It was a unique service and i'm thankful that i got to take part.


Ms. G was still cleaning out a house she's got up for sale, and she gifted us a much needed floor lamp and a tiny dresser.  Not only is Sweetie thankful to have more light on his side of the bedroom, we're both thankful for the brainstorm he had when looking for a lampshade for the odd size of this lamp, he found one he could put on there upside down, and it works!


One very busy day this week, i stopped to buy myself a cup of hot tea, a rare treat.  The place was very busy, and a family that had already placed and paid for their order was waiting and looking at other goods for sale there.  Mom and both kids found cups they wanted, and Dad patiently got back in line behind me while they grabbed their order that had just come up.


When i realized they had their order and were just waiting to pay for the cups, i told him to go ahead of me as i knew it wouldn't take but a quick moment and i remember the days of dealing with small children while waiting in lines.  He thanked me by handing the cashier some money and saying, "Her drink is on me!" as he and the family ran out the door!


The shelter is doing well, and i'm thankful i was there to see a couple of adoptions happen as well as spend time with some really precious kitties and lovely cat people.



Please write up your own list and link up to Ten Things of Thankful, where Dyanne and her co-hosts always have a warm welcome waiting.   



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Today is:


Act Goofy Day -- started by someone who wanted to see how far the internet could spread goofiness


Arivee de l'Evangile -- French Polynesia (Gospel Day)


Babysitter Safety Day


Birthday of Wenchang Wang, the God of Literature -- China


Crispus Attucks Day*


Custom Chief's Day -- Vanuatu


Diasia -- Ancient Greek Calendar (festival of Zeus Meilikhios; date approximate)


Iditarod Sled Dog Race - Last Great Race on Earth® begins -- Anchorage to Nome, AK, US (1,000 miles along the historic Iditarod Trail)


National Absinthe Day


National Cheese Doodle Day


Navigium Isis/Ploiaphaesia: The Festival of Navigation -- Ancient Roman Calendar/Ancient Egyptian Calendar (Sailing Festival, honoring Isis as sea goddess and goddess of sailing, on the traditional start of the sailing season)


Scouts' Day -- Taiwan (celebration of Boy Scouts and Girl Guides in Taiwan)


St. Piran's Day (Patron of miners, tin miners, tinners; Cornwall, England; Piran, Slovenia)

     St. Piran's Day Celebrations -- Cornwall, England; Kansas City, KA, US

     

Stop the Clocks Day -- another of those with-no-explanation web holidays that sounds like a good idea


Temperance Day -- North America's first Temperance Law was passed in Virginia this day in 1623


Wedding of the March Dryads -- Fairy Calendar



Anniversary Today:


Channel Islands National Park is established, 1980




Birthdays Today:


Jake Lloyd, 1989

Niki Taylor, 1975

Kevin Connolly, 1974

Eva Mendes, 1974

Andy Gibb, 1958

Penn Jillette, 1955

Marsha Warfield, 1954

Michael Warren, 1946

Paul Sand, 1944

Samantha Eggar, 1939

Fred Williamson, 1938

Dean Stockwell, 1936

James Noble, 1922

Rex Harrison, 1908

Zhou Enlai, 1898

Emmett J. Culligan, 1893

Heitor Villa-Lobos, 1887

Howard Pyle, 1853

James Merrit Ives, 1824

William Blackstone, 1595

Gerhardus Mercator, 1512



Debuting/Premiering Today:


"What the Butler Saw"(Play)1969

"Leningrad"/Symphony No. 7 in C major(Shostakovich Op. 60), 1942

"Mefistofele"(Opera), 1868



Today in History:



Roman Emperor Julian moves from Antioch with an army of 90,000 to attack the Sassanid Empire, in a campaign which would bring about his own death, 363

Naser Khosrow begins the seven-year Middle Eastern journey which he will later describe in his book Safarnama, 1046

English king Henry VII hires John Cabot (Giovanni Caboto) and his sons to explore unknown lands for England, 1496

Smoking tobacco is introduced in Europe by Francisco Fernandes, 1558

Copernicus' "de Revolutionibus" is placed on Catholic Forbidden index, 1616

Antonio de Ulloa, the first Spanish governor of Louisiana, arrives in New Orleans to take possession of the Louisiana territory from the French, 1766

*Boston Massacre: British troops kill 5 in a crowd, including a young boy and Crispus Attackus, the first black to die for American freedom, in an event that would contribute to the outbreak of the American Revolutionary War five years later, 1770

The Dutch city of Leeuwarden forbids Jews to go to synagogues on Sundays, 1820

Samuel Colt makes the first production-model revolver, the .34-caliber, 1836

George Westinghouse Jr patents the triple air brake for trains, 1872

Nikola Tesla, in Electrical World and Engineer, describes the process of the ball lightning formation, 1904

Winston Churchill uses the phrase "Iron Curtain" in his speech at Westminster College, Missouri, 1946

The Nuclear Non-Proliferation Treaty goes into effect after ratification by 43 nations, 1970

Soviet probes Venera 11, Venera 12 and the American solar satellite Helios II all are hit by "off the scale" gamma rays leading to the discovery of soft gamma repeaters, 1979

America's Voyager 1 spacecraft has its closest approach to Jupiter, 172,000 miles, 1979

The Soviet probe Venera 14 arrives at the planet Venus, 1982

The graves of Czar Nicholas II and his family are found near St. Petersburg, 1995

President of Venezuela, Hugo Chavez, dies in office in the nation's capital, Caracas, at age 58, 2013

A survey by the European Union Agency for Fundamental Rights reports that about 1/3 of women in the European Union have experienced physical or sexual violence since the age of 15, 2014

North Korean leader Kim Jong-un meets with South Korean officials for the first time since taking office, hosting a dinner in Pyongyang, 2018

The journal Nature publishes a study of the second person ever cured of HIV by stem cell transplant therapy, 2019

Wednesday, November 17, 2021

Ladies' Meeting Again (Wordless Wednesday) and Words for Wednesday

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Linking up with Wordless Wednesday and Sandee at Comedy Plus.     






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Words for Wednesday was begun by Delores and has become a moveable feast of word or picture or music prompts to encourage us to write stories, poems, or whatever strikes our fancy.    


This month, the prompts are being provided by Margaret Adamson and her friend, Sue Fulcher.  They will also feature photographs by Margaret's friend, Bill Dodd The prompts will be posted on  Elephant’s Child's blog.              


This week the prompts are the following images:






Petya shuffled past the abandoned factory, kicking a stone along the road with him.  He walked past it daily on the way to school, a sight so common he didn't even notice it any longer.


He used to ask his father what was behind the boarded windows and crumbling iron fence, but his father just told him not to ask.  "It no longer concerns us, best to not ask too many questions."


When he asked his grandfather, the older man just looked past him with a glint of a tear in his eye.  "It was once a pride and joy.  Not any more."  After that, his grandfather wouldn't say anything else about it.


It had been the work in the factory that had brought prosperity to the area, and it was the closing of it that plunged everything into a slow and inevitable decline.  After many years of study, Petya went away to the University.  Studying economics among many other subjects, he began to understand more about the place that had dominated the background of his childhood, shaping his family as one of the "ones that stayed."


It explained his father's reluctance to dwell on the past, his grandfather's sadness over the loss.  It shaped him into one of the new generation that tried to bring renewal.  When roots run deep in a place, he realized, you just can't give up.



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Today is:


Army Day -- Democratic Republic of the Congo


Beaujolais Nouveau Release -- France (at midnight, so really most of the celebration is tomorrow, a new wine celebration marked with fireworks and festivities)


Coping With Uncertainty Day -- of uncertain origin, as it should be


Electronic Greeting Card Day -- internet generated, and of course probably started by the electronic greeting card websites


Geographic Information Systems Day   


Homemade Bread Day -- use the bread machine, it's fun and easy, i promise!  sponsored by the Homemade Bread Day Committee of Ann Arbor, MI, US


International Students Day -- International (meant to celebrate all students around the world, not specifically students studying in countries other than their own; anniversary of the Nazi storming and closing of the University of Prague)


John Peter Zenger Day -- marking his arrest in 1734 for libel; he continued to edit his newspaper from jail and was acquitted, an early victory for freedom of the press


National Baklava Day


National Educational Support Professionals Day -- US


National Farm Joke Day


National Unfriend Day -- all those people on Facebook you regret accepting as friends?  Jimmy Kimmel suggests you unfriend them today!


Polytechneio -- Greece (anniversary of the 1973 student protests against the junta)


Presidents' Day -- Marshall Islands


Public Restroom Hand Dryer Appreciation Day -- internet generated, and why?  they've been proven less sanitary, blowing germs everywhere; i will not appreciate this one


Repentance Day -- Saxony, Germany (Day of Prayer and Repentance [Buss und Bettag])

     Buss und Bettag -- German speaking Lutheran, Reformed, and United Protestants (Day of Repentance and Prayer)


Shogi Day -- Japan (celebrating shogi, a chess-like game)


St. Elizabeth of Hungary's Day (Patron of bakers, beggars, brides, charitable societies, charitable workers, countesses, exiles, falsely accused people, hoboes, homeless people, hospitals, lace makers/lace workers, nursing homes, nursing services, people in exile, people ridiculed for their piety, tertiaries, tramps, widows; Sisters of Mercy; Teutonic Knights; Erfurt, Germany; Jaro, Philippines; against in-law problems, the death of children, toothache)


St. Hilda's Day (Patron of learning and culture)


St. Hugh of Lincoln's Day (Patron of sick children, sick people, swans)


Struggle for Freedom and Democracy Day -- Czech Republic; Slovakia


Take A Hike Day -- internet generated, and some websites say it's actually "Tell Your Boss to Take a Hike Day", but i don't recommend that unless you've recently inherited a fortune or won the Lotto


Winter Welcome Quadrilles and Dainty-Sixes -- Fairy Calendar


World COPD Day -- International (helping people understand Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease; this year's theme is "Healthy Lungs:  Never More Important")   


World Prematurity Day -- International (raising awareness about premature birth, the leading cause of newborn death each year, and what can be done to prevent it)    




Birthdays Today:


Isaac Hanson, 1980

Laura Wilkinson, 1977

Matthew Settle, 1969

Daisy Fuentes, 1966

Sophie Marceau, 1966

Dylan Walsh, 1963

RuPaul, 1960

Mary Elizabeth Mastrantonio, 1958

Danny DeVito, 1944

Lauren Hutton, 1944

Lorne Michaels, 1944

Tom Seaver, 1944

Lauren Hutton, 1943

Martin Scorsese, 1942

Gordon Lightfoot, 1938

Rock Hudson, 1925

Sichiro Honda, 1906

Lee Strassberg, 1901

Bernard Law Montgomery, 1887

August Mobius, 1790

John Peter Zenger, 1734

Atahualpa, last Emperor of the Inca, 1502

Flavius Claudius Julianus, Roman Emperor, 331

Vespian, Roman Emperor, 9



Debuting/Premiering Today:


"Sunset Boulevard"(Musical), 1994

"Rumors"(Simon play), 1988

"The Elephant Man"(Play), 1977

"The Sorcerer"(Gilbert and Sullivan comic opera), 1877

"Andromaque"(Racine tragedy), 1667



Today in History:


Diocletian is proclaimed emperor by his soldiers, 284

England and Spain sign an anti-French covenant/treaty, 1511

Elizabeth I ascends the English throne, 1558

France and Spain sign the Peace of the Pyrenees treaty, 1659

The Church of England organizes in New England, 1785

Congress holds its first session in the still incomplete Capitol Building of Washington, D.C., 1800

The Delta Phi fraternity, America's oldest continuous social fraternity, is founded at Union College in Schenectady, New York, 1827

Ecuador and Venezuela separate from Greater Colombia, 1831

Street signs are first authorized at San Francisco intersections, 1853

David Livingstone becomes the first European to see Victoria Falls, 1855

Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky's Slavonic March is given its première performance in Moscow, 1876

Japan and Korea sign The Eulsa Treaty, 1905

The first US dental hygienist course is formed, in Bridgeport, Connecticut, 1913

US declares the Panama Canal Zone to be neutral, 1914

Lenin defends the "temporary" removal of freedom of the press, 1917

American scientists John Bardeen and Walter Brattain observe the basic principles of the transistor, a key element for the electronics revolution of the 20th Century, 1947

Douglas Engelbart receives the patent for the first computer mouse, 1970

In Czechoslovakia, the Velvet Revolution that would overthrow the communist government begins when student protests in Prague are quelled by riot police, 1989

Brian May of the rock band Queen was appointed Chancellor of Liverpool John Moores University, 2007

In Sweden, divers find the wreckage of the Svardet, a warship sunk in 1676 during the Battle of Oland, 2011

The Church of England adopts legislation enabling the appointment of female bishops, 2014

A smaller pyramid found within 2 known Kukulkan "nesting" pyramids dating from 550-580 AD is announced at Chichen Itza in Yucatan, Mexico, 2016