And mostly it's rhetorical because i know the flippin' answer.
It's because i'm a sucker married to an even bigger sucker.
It's still a question i ask myself when i end up at the vet's office with someone else's pet, like i don't have enough of these things going in my own house to occupy a lifetime.
A local florist, relative of the one for whom i deliver flowers for Valentine's and Mother's Days, kept Prissy, a formerly huge, beautiful, properly spayed and inoculated Maine Coon. She had, though, become elderly, frail, and her hair, because the people at the shop didn't keep up with the brushing, very badly matted.
They didn't know how badly matted. Probably because they had seen her each day, and she still ate (and, i found later, ate a lot, more than she should have), and purred when petted, they didn't realize.
Thus when Sweetie saw her and was shocked beyond belief at how badly matted she was, he decided he couldn't stand to see her that way. Every time he went over there to pick up flowers for the building, he would stop to pet her as she greeted everyone who came. It broke his heart, and he called me.
Of course, i told him she needed to be shaved, and a groomer couldn't do it, they would need a vet or vet tech. She couldn't be anesthetized because the last time she was, it took her almost four days to come out of it. At 18 years of age, she couldn't even be tranquilized a bit with that medical history. He made the appointment with our vet, and since he's at work during office hours, it was my job to pick her up and get her to the vet, and then back.
Except that, when i saw her, i knew there was no way. The cat's hair was matted beyond belief, and i knew as soon as i picked her up that she was terribly skinny under that huge mat of fur. She also didn't smell very nice, not a good sign.
When i commented on how thin she was, the employee who was outdoors noted that she ate at least 3-4 cans of food a day, as well as having unlimited access to dry food. The alarm bells were sounding so loud i could barely smile at him and thank him for the information.
She didn't want to go in the carrier, but couldn't put up much of a struggle. When she walked, she was in serious, obvious pain. Probably arthritis as well as the pain from the mats, constantly pulling on her skin.
Tanya is one of the best vet techs ever. She told me to leave Prissy there, and she would call me. While i had a terrible feeling about that, because i wanted to be there to tell her it was okay to stop when it turned out the job couldn't be done, there was another patient there so i didn't argue. Also, i didn't get out of the car when i got home, just sat and waited.
Within a few minutes, i got the call. Tanya was in tears. "I can't do this. The cat is screaming in pain, she can't be anesthetized because of her age, I gave her pain medicine but it's not going to help, I can't do this!"
No, you can't, i told her. That's why i wanted to be there to help, so i could tell you it was okay to stop.
As i drove back over, she continued to tell me, "This poor cat is skin and bones! If I keep trying to trim her, I'm going to cut her skin. In some places, I can't tell where the mats start and the skin ends, and she's in pain. Underneath her, the area is matted with feces and urine, too, so I can't even trim in that area!"
Yes, i know you can't, i told her again. Don't worry, i'm on my way back.
When i got there, it was just as i had imagined. Tanya had done a lot more than i ever thought possible, and you could see every bone on Prissy, the areas that were shaved. She was a bag of skin and bones, busily scarfing down every bit of food they could give her. That meant probably diabetes, and the dehydration pointed to kidney failure. She probably had liver involvement, too.
The unshaved areas were horribly stuck to her skin. There was one place where a mat on her leg had grown to the mat on her side, which was another reason she walked as she did, like she was in pain.
At that point, i called Sweetie and told him this cat was in pain, already had illnesses that couldn't be treated in her current condition, and she needed to be euthanized. It was cruel not to.
He gave me the owner's phone number, and Dr. Bea called him. After she had gone over all the problems, he agreed to come himself after lunch and be there when they did it. Then he would take her home to be buried in the back yard.
The thing was, as Dr. Bea said, the cat had a beautiful personality. She purred, except when she cried in pain or growled when we touched the part of her spine where the pain from arthritis was so bad. That purr had fooled her people into thinking all was well. They didn't understand that the purr functions as a way of self-soothing, not as a sign all is well. Sometimes it's not a happy sound, it's a distress sound.
How do i get dragged into these things? How do i end up with Dr. Bea fussing at me for bringing in other people's pets? Because i'm a sucker, married to a bigger sucker, but in this case, it was a blessing for a beautiful cat that couldn't tolerate anesthesia, who was so far into multiple system failures that leaving her to the people who just fed her and didn't see what was happening would have been cruel.
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Canada celebrates its first official, national Thanksgiving Day, 1879
Mohandas Gandhi is arrested while leading a march of Indian miners in South Africa, 1913
Colonel Jacob Schick patents the first electric razor, 1928
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Plutonium is first produced at the Hanford Atomic Facility, 1944
The United Nations General Assembly passes a resolution condemning South Africa's racist apartheid policies and calls for all UN member states to cease military and economic relations with the nation, 1962
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